They realize that it must not be the right match and they move on, with their sense of self firmly intact.When a girl is insecure, however, and a guy leaves, she spirals.Confident women know what they will and will not accept and don’t allow themselves to be pressured or guilted into doing things they don’t want to do.
It takes time and it takes work and it isn’t always easy.
Everyone’s path will be different, but no matter what, having a picture of what high self-esteem looks like, and how it can play out in relationships, is helpful and can help reveal the areas you may need to work on.
The fact is, you can only let in as much love from the outside as you feel on the inside.
If you don’t feel good about yourself, you will never truly believe that someone else can love you and you will constantly be on the lookout for the other shoe to drop, for the guy you care about to leave, thus validating the fact that you are unworthy of love.
Instead, they assume he likes them and are able to be present in the relationship and enjoy it without being weighed down by fears and doubts. Confident people realize if a relationship falls apart it’s because it wasn’t right, not because they did something wrong.
Not everyone is a match and sometimes, two people are just incompatible.
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Healthy self-esteem is a prerequisite for healthy relationships.
She will continue to maintain her own life outside of the relationship without giving up her friends, hobbies, or alone time.
She won’t abandon important parts of herself or her life for the sake of the relationship and if a guy wants something else or something more than she’s willing to give, she’ll leave. Confident women trust themselves and the decisions they make.
They know that they are good, competent, and lovable and trust that the right person for them will see this.