She will note that relationships can be great, and maybe want one of her own. If she can’t come up with great reasons, this may just open her eyes to his loser status.She may not even realize she’s dating a complete loser until she is exposed to a winner. MORE: Ask Sujeiry: Why Did My Man of 6 Years Just Stop Calling?
If she asks you questions about her relationship, be honest. Again, if she’s asking for your opinion she really wants the truth.
She’s asking you because she’s doubting her relationship. Just ease her into it as she is blinded by the love of a loser.
I totally get that you don’t want to hurt her and you want to be a good friend, but the fact of the matter is that she isn’t being a great friend to you – and you definitely need to speak up.
The next time your friend comes to you to complain about this guy, say something like this: “I’ve already told you how I feel about him and I’ve already given you the same advice I’ve been giving you for a year and a half.
Last year, my friend lost her v-card to her boyfriend after one month of dating. They broke up three months after having sex, but ever since then, he’s been stringing her along.
My friend has been demeaned and used by him for the past year and a half – she knows that he doesn’t like her but continues to go back to him. I have been giving her the same advice for a year and a half and she refuses to listen. It feels like our friendship is based on talking about him.Tell her that you’re upset that she never seems to care about your problems, only her problems.Let her know that while you wish you could be there for her like she needs, you just can’t.Since she’s completely disregarding your advice, it sounds like she just wants someone to listen to her complain and nothing more.While that’s fine to do to friends once in a while, it’s not fair for her to do this to you all the time."And he would ditch her, or not show up to things." Her friend, who had always been social, suddenly was rarely going out.